
Yesterday I arrived in San Diego. I had a one hour meeting scheduled for today, but since I live on the whole other coast, it takes roughly 3 days to get here and back. I'd done my homework. I found an Italian restaurant that had crazy good reviews. Last night I ventured to Buon Appetito in Little Italy. That was one exquisitely good meal. I savored a Prosecco with fantastic crusty bread and this tomato tapenade stuff that was out of this world. It was a completely positive experience so things were bound to level off a bit.

I'll say. For lunch today I had a few hours available. I didn't have a keen notion of what I was looking for, but I have had a hankering for sopapillas. I passed Sammy's Woodfired Pizza by (we'd gone there when we were last in San Diego). There was a posh looking Mexican grill nearby. It was pretty inside. At chips and salsa I tasted soap. That would have been a good time to leave. There was one server working. There were 3 people working in the exposed kitchen. There were loud and giddy young girls who pronounced "Pollo" like the sport. When my fajitas (hey, it was the menu) arrived they were so incredibly not what I wanted that I bit my tongue not to ask for the box before she put them on the table. I nibbled, then I boxed.
As I left I seriously wondered if I should go have lunch somewhere. I knew I'd seek out a homeless person to give my leftovers to. I started looking. You can never actually find a homeless person when you are searching for one. And of course since I was planning to hand over my whole lunch to him, I'd better be darn sure he's actually homeless and not just cool before I do.
She was standing in the doorway of a closed shop with a cart, unseasonable clothing, and two dogs. As I approached her I asked if she lives "here". When I saw her hands I knew the answer. I explained, as I have before, that I'd just left a restaurant and I had this meal that was still warm, and did she want it. She asked if the fajitas were spicy and I told her they weren't. Then she said she might give it to her dogs and I totally had to process that. Luckily I was somewhat functional and told her the dogs must not have any of the onions.
But that wasn't the awkward moment. As I left her with the meal, I looked up and saw a woman sitting outside the shop I was about to enter who was watching me intently. She'd just seen my little visit with the dog lady. When you're trying to do something anonymously and then someone peers in, it's kind of weird. I felt her eyes on me. The crazy thing was that I was rrrreally not being nearly as nice as she thought I was. I was pawning off a meal I found unacceptable and overpriced on a woman who doesn't even like spicy things. Also, it is hardly charitable to wander around town for 20 minutes wondering to yourself, "Where the hell are all the indigents?"
Once I left the area I had a veritable bounty of homeless options. Unfortunately I was out of unsatisfactory food. I headed off for an afternoon of work.
But then it was time for dinner. I found myself back in Little Italy (GPS knew how to get there). I found myself standing outside Buon Appetito. I thought about going back in and ordering something radically different. But it's all still Italian and I'd been down that road. I wandered up and down the streets of Little Italy. Since San Diego is awfully temperate, there's outdoor dining in the middle of December. Along with outdoor tables there are outdoor hostesses hovering near the outdoor menus. This puts a LOT of pressure on a prospective diner. More so when they actually SEE you cross the street specifically to walk up and peruse their menu. When they actually greet you you can hear the beg to come in whispered. And then, just like that, you slash all their hopes and dreams, leaving another broken hostess in your wake.
So yeah, I looked everywhere in Little Italy, but having JUST had Italian food... So I got in the car with the absolute intent to find a section of the city that was not Little Italy or the Gaslamp District (site of the lunch fiasco where I had also hunted for a good place for an eternity). And I drove and drove in the city. I headed toward the tall buildings - people work, people gots to eat. But apparently they all eat at Subway. So I drove and drove.
That's when I noticed that San Diego has LONG red lights. I couldn't figure this out for a while... partially because I was obsessed with the vigor with which San Diegans apply the right to turn right on red and the right to turn left on red onto a one way street. Then I noticed that in some intersections pedestrians are allowed to cross diagonally. What in the name of all that is holy is that about? That means all lights for cars turn red so that pedestrians can party in the middle of the square for a while. But still, the lights here are damn long.
Anyway, so nothing - vast desert of dining establishments - and then there it was - a lighted mecca of restaurant goodness just off to my right. Turn. Turn. Turn. Holy crap it's the damn Lamplight District. Cut to - very long period of now searching for parking AND a restaurant. At this point I deserve a drink, and possibly a steak. Multiple attempted entries into dining establishments later I plunk myself into Donovan's Steak and Chophouse. It's McCormick and Schmicky and that's fine. Until. Gulp. My lil ole steak is gonna run me $38. That drinky is $9.50. At first I started thinking what the hell kind of baroness do I think I am going out for the poshy poshy dinner. Then I looked over at all the greying solo male diners and said effit. Well, effit to the extent that I put half the total on a gift card that's been hanging out in my purse for months and the rest on my company card.
And the best thing I've tasted in San Diego is the free bread and tomato dip at Buon Appetito. Here's where I recommend the book
